Talking skills for women with high EQ are worth learning for all women

Talking is not just opening your mouth, it is a manifestation of a person's cultivation.

Those who can speak and those who cannot speak often have completely different lives.

How to speak is an essential skill for a woman. To keep deepening in your favorite field, you need to master the art of speaking. Because speaking is to show oneself in all directions.

Those who can talk will become a shining spot wherever they go, they will be popular wherever they go, and they can easily make friends.

Talking women are especially high in EQ. You can't find faults in her words at all, and will make the other person feel happy and make them like talking to you. Speaking depends on the target, doing what he likes, not poking at other people's pain points, distinguishing what can be said and what cannot be said, from time to time with others, but the words cannot be too absolute and certain. Be sure to keep your feet in check and leave a little room for yourself. When speaking, you can add some small jokes from time to time to achieve a lively atmosphere.

Don't chatter there alone, know how to look at other people's winks, so that you can move freely.

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Change in tone of speech

Don't speak in a particularly high, sharp tone, it will make people sound harsh. Don't keep all in the same tone, it will make people feel like sleeping. Too low, it will make people think that you are a solemn person, a person with no confidence.

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Changes in the speed of speaking

You should speak calmly with others, clarify your thoughts, and speak with a constant frequency. Chess, you can’t speak too fast. First of all, you don’t hear clearly, and then, it will make people think that you are very impatient. The change of speaking speed can be changed according to the content of your own speech and the change of mood.

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Change in tone

Don't speak with exaggeration and fangs. This will give people a kind of exaggeration, will make people feel offensive, and make people feel like they are pretentious.

You can pay more attention to the speaking styles of people around you, read some books to improve your self-cultivation, and learn from hosts. Listen more; watch more, life is your best teacher.